If that is love, I don't want to be in love.

"The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire, and so will love be perfected in pain." (Marvin Jay M. Torres)

Ladies and gentlemen, respected viewers, bloggers,

Love is pain.

Have you ever wondered how many pains you will face whenever you encountered love in your life?

It is hard. To be loved and to love is hard. Many people can say that they are truly deep in love and they are truly fall in love. However, before you are ready to be in love or to put yourself in a relationship, bear in mind, love isn't a piece of cake thing. It is not easy.

Nowadays, the term 'love' has been misused. Many people said they are in love, however, their love had actually harmed their partners. Cases and cases. Problems and problems. Proof lies in front of your eyes.

Sometimes, I do think that maybe love is blind. As it blind your eyes until when you are holding the term of love, you can even poured acid on to your partner's face just to tell her 'I love you'. This is so bad, ladies and gentlemen. If this is what you called love, then I don't want to be in love. How did you measure your love if you can slap her, you can dump her, you can kick her  whenever you want, but at the same time, you are saying that you love her?

Love can make you do things that you never thought possible.

That's the power of love. But, if you believe that you are in love and then you killed yourself by saying that, "I love her then she left me. I don't have anyone to be loved anymore. I must die", you are so stupid. Why? If that is what you called love, I don't want to be in love.

Pals, love isn't all about harm. Love isn't all about pain. Love is all about you and him. Love is all about understanding, give and take. You cannot measure love. You cannot put any hopes in love as it may hurt you if you are trying so hard on it.

But, you can always believe in love. No one will blame you even if you fail to hold it forever as long as you are trying your best in that love.

Be true in whatever you are doing. Never be others when you are in love. Be yourself. Be who you are. Be who you want to be.

Love is happiness and happiness is love.

"To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this." (Unknown)